Torah Study: If you are not participating in a program: Divide the night into two main parts: 1: A Celebration of your learning of the past year. 2: What you hope to learn between now and next Shavuot.
1: Make a list of the favorite things you learned this year. Spend the first half of the night reviewing and applying the practical lessons of your studies.
2. Are there books or areas of learning you would like to study? Bible, Prophets, Proverbs, Psalms, Midrash, Philosophy, Talmud or law? Choose two of the areas that most intrest you and study them for the rest of the night.
Preparations for Sinai included the purification of relationships between husbands and wives.
First Day: Have an honest and open evaluation of your relationship and what each can do to improve the marriage.
Second Day: Together, study the story of the Covenant of Sinai that appears at the end of Mishpatim: Exodus, Chapter 24.
All the laws of conversion are derived from the preparations for Sinai.
Day One: Consider and/or discuss whether, if offered the choice, you would choose to be part of the Covenant of Sinai.
Day Two: Consider and/or discuss which aspect of Torah would compel you to convert.
“Just as they left Rephidim in Teshuva, so they arrived at Sinai in Teshuva.” (Rashi, Exodus 19:2)
Day One: Ask two people you respect and trust to pinpoint two of your positive qualities and to suggest two areas you can improve.
Day Two: Review and discuss the Six Constant Mitzvot and how you can improve your incorporation of those commandments.
Shavuot is more about relationship than laws.
Day One: Spend extra time reciting the blessings before Torah study.
Day Two: Spend extra time reciting “Ahavah Rabbah” the blessing immediately before the morning Shema.
Perform a Post Shavuot Evaluation, preferably with a partner, of what you gained from the Chag.