Preparing for Shabbat-Chidah-Avoiding Anger

The 11th of Adar is the Yahrtzeit of Rav Chaim Yosef Dovid (Raphael Yitzchok Zerachia) Azulai, (the Chida): The afternoon before Shabbat is a dangerous time for arguments between husband and wife and between servants, for the Other Side exerts much effort to incite a dispute. But someone who fears God should subdue his evil inclination and see that no argument or annoyance is aroused. On the contrary, he should seek peace and be peaceful in everything. (Chidah, Avodat haKodesh)