The Tzanzer Rebbe once broke down in tears. “It is known that a man may study the Torah,” he said, “lead a holy life and pray regularly and still belong to the Other Side. Perhaps, for all my learning and prayer I still belong to the Other Side!”
But then he found reassurance. “The Other Side is incapable of love. It is selfish and grasping, thinking only of itself. I do have love for others in my heart, so, for all my feelings, I cannot really belong there.”
Haggadah: recite “Let all who are hungry come and eat,” with love.